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Finances and estate planning

 
 
  "Were we relieved when Mom told us she had talked to an attorney. They made arrangements so we would know how to handle her finances in case she was unable to make decisions herself. My friend’s father got sick and he had done nothing to prepare for it. Trying to manage the financial side of his life on top of all the emotions and physical aspects of caregiving—that was rough!"

 
 
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Someone to handle your finances, just in case
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Protecting your assets
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In the event of your death
 
 


Why make financial plans?

     Costly medical bills, the potential need for nursing home care, the possibility of dying, the need to provide security for a surviving spouse are a few important reasons to get your financial affairs in order. Just as you may need to choose a health care representative, you may need someone to make financial decisions for you in case you become unable to do so yourself. Considering that your illness is potentially very serious, planning ahead ensures that you and your family members will be provided for in the manner of your choosing. (Return to list)

Someone to handle your finances, just in case
     During the course of an illness, it may become difficult to get to the bank, file taxes, go to the assessor’s office, or balance the checkbook. Yet to protect you, most financial institutions will not discuss your finances with anyone who is not listed on your account. These circumstances can become a significant problem if you become homebound or bedridden. To alleviate this quandary, consider choosing a trustworthy person to be your "durable power of attorney." Once you have made your choice, legally all you need to do is fill out a durable power of attorney form available at any stationary store. Be sure to find out if it must be notarized to be valid.
     Giving someone power of attorney means that person has the right to make financial decisions in your place. For this reason, you must choose the person with care. If you have any doubts about the individual you have in mind, hold off on making a final decision.
     Giving someone power of attorney, however, does not mean you lose control of your finances. You can continue to make all decisions and carry out all your transactions as usual. But if something happens to you and you become incapacitated, the person who has durable power of attorney may act in your stead. You have the option of limiting the person’s rights to managing your banking, taxes, or specific accounts.
     You may also revoke durable power of attorney at any time. Simply send a written notice to each of your financial institutions and consultants. (The word "durable" does not mean "forever." It simply means that if you become mentally incapacitated, e.g., from a stroke or Alzheimer’s disease, the person may continue to make financial decisions for you.) Until a durable power of attorney is revoked, it remains valid as long as you are alive. At such point that you pass on, however, the person serving as your durable power of attorney will no longer have access to your assets or decision-making rights regarding your finances.
     Some people choose to open a joint checking account with the trusted person, which is a less-formal arrangement than durable power of attorney. This enables the cosigner to write checks after the death has occurred, which can simplify tasks such as bill paying. This setup does not allow the person to sign your taxes or conduct other legal transactions for you. If you decide you want to change the arrangement, however, it may be a little more difficult to revoke shared access to a joint account than it would be to revoke a power of attorney.
     A durable power of attorney can only be granted while the individual who is ill is still mentally sound. If you have a terminal illness, there will likely come a time when you will not be able to make decisions for yourself. Without a durable power of attorney in place, especially if you are not married and you become mentally incapacitated, the courts would appoint someone to make financial decisions for you. This person might be a family member or even an attorney. You can safeguard your estate against a court appointment by selecting a durable power of attorney ahead of time.
     If you become mentally incapable and have no legal spouse and no paperwork in place, the court will appoint decision makers for you. In general, two types of decisions must be made—one regarding health and well being and the other regarding finances. A person appointed to make decisions in these two areas is called a "guardian." A person appointed simply to look after the financial side of things is called a "conservator." To learn more about power of attorney, guardianships, and conservatorships, go to the National Guardianship Association website or talk to an attorney who specializes in elder law. (Return to list)

Protecting your assets
     The need to protect your partner is a key reason to get your financial papers in order. You will want to be sure that your partner is not left high and dry, especially if you are living with someone without being married. Inheritance laws do not acknowledge unmarried couples; thus, you must specifically stipulate your wishes regarding your house or other assets. This is particularly true for same-sex partners because surviving family members may not be aware of the partnership or may be unwilling to respect the union.
     Another consideration for the seriously ill is whether their medical and other care expenses will gobble up resources and leave a surviving spouse with insufficient funds for their own needs. Medicare will pay for limited time in a nursing home provided 24-hour nursing care is required. But people who need long-term assistance and those who need non-medical help such as preparing meals, doing laundry or remembering medications must pay for this care out of their own pockets. This can get very expensive!
     Medicaid, the federal government’s program designed for low-income individuals, can be enlisted to pay for extra-care needs. Many people enter a facility as private-pay clients and eventually spend their assets to the point that they qualify for this program. Medicaid then will cover what Medicare doesn’t. However, choices are extremely limited when you are on Medicaid. Qualifying for this low-income program involves specific formulas for countable assets (bank accounts, stock, property) and exempt assets (house, car, belongings). If you need to look into Medicaid as a source of financial assistance, consider talking with an attorney specializing in elder law. He or she can advise you about how to "spend down" and distribute your assets in such a way that some still remain for your partner.
     Long-term care insurance is an alternative to a spend-down strategy and may help you protect your assets. This form of insurance is designed to pay for skilled and unskilled help for a long period of time. Depending on the terms of your policy, you may receive care in your home, in an assisted-living setting, in a residential care setting, or in a nursing home.
     Long-term care insurance is not for everyone, however. It can be very expensive, especially if you are already ill. Unfortunately, the best time to enroll in long-term care insurance is while you are relatively healthy. Age is also a factor. The younger you are, the lower the premiums—but the longer you will likely be paying them. If you would qualify for Medicaid within six months to a year of paying for services on your own, long-term care insurance is generally not considered a worthwhile investment.
     Long-term care insurance typically has many restrictions. Shop around carefully for a policy that meets your projected needs. It is not unheard of that a family has paid premiums for years, only to find that the particular circumstances of the condition are not covered by their policy.
     To find out more, consider going to the AARP website and reading their articles on long-term care insurance. As well, each state has a State Health Insurance Assistance Program that can offer tips and advice about the purchase of long-term care insurance. Contact the federal Eldercare Locator program toll free at 1-800-677-1116 to find the State Health Insurance Assistance office closest to you. (Return to list)

In the event of your death
     Everyone over age 18 should have a document that designates whom they want their assets to go to in the case of their death. Generally called a will, such papers also can describe who are to be the guardians of minor children in your custody. If you do not have a will, state law will divide your property according to its own formulas. It will even appoint a guardian for your children if their other parent is not able to care for them.
     To be legal, a will must meet these requirements:

 
 
  • You must be mentally capable at the time that you create it.
  • The document must state specifically that it is your will.
  • You must sign and date the will in the presence of as many as three witnesses.
  • The witnesses must sign the will. They are not required to read the document. Their signatures simply affirm that they know it is you signing the will and that you were of sound mind when you created it. The people you choose to be witnesses should not be people who will be receiving assets from your estate.
 
 
     It is advisable that you choose someone to be your estate’s executor—the person who will manage the distribution of your assets. Give a copy of your will to this individual and keep a copy at home and perhaps one in a safe deposit box.
     After death, a person’s estate usually goes into probate, which can involve inheritance taxes and other expenses. It will also take time to distribute all the person’s assets. To spare survivors this ordeal as well as save on taxes, some people choose to make a revocable living trust. This document is similar to a will in that you can determine who receives what after you die. However, it is quite different than a will because you remove your name from your property while you are still alive and put all your assets into the trust.
     The laws governing living trusts are very complicated; composing a living trust that truly meets your needs requires the skills of a lawyer. Not surprisingly, living trusts can be expensive. One advantage is that you spend the money and devote the time to setting it up before you die or are incapacitated, thus sparing your survivors these expenditures. If your estate is not very large, however, it may not be worth the expense. Beware that there are many living-trust scams that offer low-cost kits or paperwork. In fact, this is such a widespread problem that the Federal Trade Commission has provided an online brochure to help you avoid these con artists.
     To help you learn more about financial decisions and estate planning, the American Bar Association’s 200-page Consumer Guide to Wills and Estates can be ordered online. Nolo Press, an organization dedicated to "putting the law in plain English," also has an online encyclopedia with free articles about wills and estates. (Return to list)
 
 

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